Here is how each time signature should sound like:
- 4/4: ONE two THREE four
- 3/4 or 3/8: ONE two three
- 2/4 or 2/2: ONE two
- 6/8 or 6/4: [ONE two three] [TWO two three]
- 9/8 or 9/4: [ONE two three] [TWO two three] [THREE two three]
The bolded ONE is always a strong beat 重拍, no matter what time signature the song is. In the 4/4 time signature, THREE is considered a semi-strong beat 半重拍, so it is not as strong as the first beat, but still stronger than 2nd and 4th beat. In compound time signature, you should be able to hear the 1-2-3 in each beat. Sometimes, songs in compound time can sound like this: one-one-two, one-one-two (where one is long and two is short). This is called the swing pattern, which is commonly heard in Jazz. A song that has this pattern is most likely in compound time, but you would still have to figure out whether it is 6/8, 9/8, or 12/8 by listening to the strong beat.